The black book by Black Tie Introductions™
Join our private, invitation-only community for marriage-minded professionals.
Gain access to vetted men and woman and personal guidance from our founder.
The Black Book by Black Tie is a lifetime membership society created for accomplished, marriage-minded individuals who refuse to settle—in business, life, or in love.
Inside The Black Book:
A meticulously vetted network of verified, exceptional singles
Monthly gatherings - virtual and in-person at venues that match your standards
Direct access to our founder for strategic introductions
Background-verified members who value discretion and excellence
Curated connections based on compatibility, not chance
Application Fee: $55 - Apply for an invitation to receive lifetime access to The Black Book by BTI
Unlike dating apps where you're on your own, The Black Book provides:
Lifetime membership in The Black Book by Black Tie Introductions™
30-minute private onboarding session with our founder
Inclusion in our vetted member database for curated introductions
Invitations to exclusive mixers and private events (only in certain areas)
Access to members-only updates and priority match consideration
Eligibility for VIP upgrades and Elite Matchmaking experiences
A curated network of quality professional singles
Personal support from our founder
A safe, background-verified community
You have two ways to work with our Founder, depending on where you are in your journey:
Apply → Submit your confidential application with fee
Invitation → Receive your exclusive membership invitation
Activation → Secure your lifetime membership
Connection → Access curated and strategic introductions
Over 96% of our approved members say this was the best investment they’ve made in their love life.
The Book isn't a dating app — it's a curated society where exceptional singles become exceptional couples.
For members who want deeper, 1:1 guidance in attracting, selecting, and sustaining the relationship they’ve prayed for.
VIP Dating Strategy Sessions
12-Week 1:1 Intensive Program
Wing Woman for an Evening - Never Walk Into a Room Alone Again. Real-time dating coaching at the most exclusive venues (select venues only). Build confidence, master conversation, and make authentic connections—with an expert by your side.
Dating apps waste your time. Singles events attract the wrong crowd. The Black Book solves this by curating a space for:
Professionals
Relationship readiness
Genuine intention
Shared values
Begin your confidential application below.
"I thought the problem was that men couldn't handle successful women. Turns out, I was presenting myself in a way that attracted the wrong type of man entirely. Once I understood what was happening, everything shifted. I'm now engaged to someone who sees my ambition as one of the things he loves most about me." ~Sarah, 34, Marketing Executive
"BTI delivered where everything else failed. I met an incredible woman who matches my ambition and shares my values. Worth every penny." ~ David, 42, Private Equity Partner
"The ROI on this investment? Priceless. Where else can you walk into a room knowing everyone's been vetted and is serious about partnership?"
~ James, 39, Entrepreneur
Only those who apply will ever know who what they will experience as a Black Book member. Your invitation awaits. Submit your application today to be considered for our upcoming exclusive experiences in your city.
Investment: $55 | Confirmation within 48-72 business hours

Meet Your Host & Curator
I'm Kai, Founder of Black Tie Introductions™ and architect of The Club—the only society where your romantic prospects match your professional standards.After years as a relationship strategist to ultra-high-net-worth individuals, I recognized a void: accomplished singles had nowhere to meet their equals. No space that honored their success while facilitating authentic connection.The Club was born from a simple conviction: Exceptional people deserve exceptional experiences. Not another app. Not another mixer. A curated society where every member has been selected for their substance, success, and sincerity.As a Certified Matchmaker and Wedding Officiant, I've guided hundreds of power couples from introduction to "I Do." They all started with the courage to step into a room where excellence is expected and mediocrity doesn't exist.This isn't about finding someone tonight. It's about never wasting another evening wondering if the right person exists.They do. They may already be inside The Black Book.
Welcome to your new standard.
Kai
Founder, Black Tie Introductions™
Curator of Exceptional Connections
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