The black book by Black Tie Introductions™

Where Accomplished Singles Meet Their Match

Join a private meticulously vetted community where exceptional singles meet their equals.
Lifetime membership. Strategic introductions. Uncompromising standards.

What Is The Black Book?

The Black Book is an invitation-only society for accomplished, marriage-minded professionals who refuse to settle—in business, life, or love.
Unlike dating apps where you swipe endlessly, or mixers where anyone can walk in, The Black Book is a curated community where every member has been personally vetted, background-verified, and selected for their character, success, and genuine commitment to partnership.

Your Lifetime Membership Includes:

  • Exclusive Database Access – Inclusion in our private network for strategic, founder-curated introductions

  • Personal Onboarding – 30-minute private strategy session with our founder

  • Vetted Community – Every member is background-verified and relationship-ready

  • Elite Events – Invitations to quarterly curated mixers and private gatherings (select cities)

  • Founder Access – Direct communication for match opportunities and relationship guidance

  • VIP Eligibility – Priority consideration for exclusive matchmaking experiences

This isn't a dating app. It's a curated society where exceptional singles become exceptional couples.

Application Fee: $55 - Apply for an invitation to receive lifetime access to The Black Book by BTI


💎 Investment Structure:

Unlike dating apps where you're on your own, The Black Book provides:

  • Step 1: Application Review – $55=>Submit your confidential application to be considered for membership. Our founder personally reviews each submission to ensure alignment with our community standards.

  • Step 2: Membership Activation – $525 (one-time, lifetime) ==>Upon approval, secure your lifetime access to The Black Book. No annual renewals. No hidden fees. One investment in your romantic future.

  • Total Investment: $580 for Lifetime Membership

  • Confirmation within 48-72 business hours of application submission.


The Book isn't a dating app — it's a curated society where exceptional marriage-minded singles become exceptional couples.

Three Ways to Work With Black Tie Introductions™

For members who want deeper, 1:1 guidance in attracting, selecting, and sustaining the relationship they’ve prayed for.

The Black Book Membership
Investment: $580 (Lifetime)

Perfect for accomplished singles who want access to a vetted community and strategic introductions without full concierge matchmaking.

  • Lifetime membership in our exclusive database

  • 30-minute personal onboarding with our founder

  • Invitations to quarterly curated events (select cities)

  • Background verification and community access

  • Priority consideration for match opportunities

VIP Dating Intensive
Investment: Starting at $15,000

For members who want deeper, 1-on-1 guidance in attracting, selecting, and sustaining the relationship they've prayed for.
What's Included:

  • 12-week private coaching intensive

  • VIP dating strategy sessions

  • Personalized attraction and communication blueprint

  • WingWoman Experience (group or private)

  • Everything in The Black Book membership

Elite Matchmaking
By Invitation Only

Our signature white-glove service for individuals who demand excellence in every area of life.
What's Included:

  • Dedicated nationwide search for your ideal partner

  • Unlimited curated introductions

  • Full concierge dating support

  • Private WingWoman experiences and real-time coaching

  • Everything in VIP + The Black Book


Why The Black Book?

Dating apps waste your time. Endless swiping. No vetting. Anyone can create a profile.

Singles events attract the wrong crowd. Open to everyone. No screening. Surface-level connections.

The Black Book is different.
Every member is:

  • Professionally accomplished – No one here is looking for a meal ticket

  • Relationship-ready – Marriage-minded, not "seeing what's out there"

  • Genuinely intentional – Invested in finding partnership, not playing games

  • Values-aligned – Shares your standards for excellence and discretion

We don't just check boxes. We curate chemistry.

Ready to Be Considered?

Begin your confidential application below.


Client Love

"I thought the problem was that men couldn't handle successful women. Turns out, I was presenting myself in a way that attracted the wrong type of man entirely. Once I understood what was happening, everything shifted. I'm now engaged to someone who sees my ambition as one of the things he loves most about me." ~Sarah, 34, Marketing Executive (Black Book Member)

"BTI delivered where everything else failed. I met an incredible woman who matches my ambition and shares my values. Worth every penny." ~ David, 42, Private Equity Partner (Elite Matchmaking Client)

"The ROI on this investment? Priceless. Where else can you walk into a room knowing everyone's been vetted and is serious about partnership? Kai and the BTI team always go above and beyond! I highly recommend."
~ James, 39, Entrepreneur (Black Book Member + Wing Woman Experience)


Ready To Join The Black Book?

  • 1. Submit Your Application ($55) - Complete our confidential application. Our founder personally reviews each submission to ensure you're aligned with our community standards.

  • 2. Receive Your Invitation (48-72 hours) - If approved, you'll receive an exclusive invitation to activate your lifetime membership.

  • 3. Activate Your Membership ($525) - Secure your lifetime access to The Black Book—no renewals, no annual fees.

  • 4. Begin Your Journey - Attend your private onboarding session, receive event invitations, and gain access to curated introductions.

Only those who apply will ever know who what they will experience as a Black Book member. Your invitation awaits. Submit your application today to be considered for our upcoming exclusive experiences in your city.

Investment: $55 | Confirmation within 48-72 business hours

Meet Kai — Your Global Elite Relationship & Luxury Lifestyle Strategist | Matchmaker

Meet Your Host & Curator
I'm Kai, Founder of Black Tie Introductions™ and architect of The Black Book—the only society where your romantic prospects match your professional standards.
After years as a relationship strategist to ultra-high-net-worth individuals, I recognized a void: accomplished singles had nowhere to meet their equals. No space that honored their success while facilitating authentic connection.The Club was born from a simple conviction: Exceptional people deserve exceptional experiences. Not another app. Not another mixer. A curated society where every member has been selected for their substance, success, and sincerity.As a Certified Matchmaker and Wedding Officiant, I've guided hundreds of power couples from introduction to "I Do." They all started with the courage to step into a room where excellence is expected and mediocrity doesn't exist.This isn't about finding someone tonight. It's about never wasting another evening wondering if the right person exists.They do. They may already be inside The Black Book.
Welcome to your new standard.
Kai
Founder, Black Tie Introductions™
Curator of Exceptional Connections

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