The black book by Black Tie Introductions™
"The two most important partnerships you'll ever choose are your business partner and your life partner. I'll show you how to find the latter."
— Kai, Founder, Black Tie Introductions™
For accomplished singles done with the apps and algorithms.
⚡ Registry members receive priority consideration for our Smitten Soirées singles events in select cities before tickets go public. Secure your spot today!
What Is The Black Book?
A private registry of marriage-minded professionals — men and women — personally overseen by Kai, Certified Matchmaker and Founder of Black Tie Introductions™.When genuine alignment exists between members, BTI makes the introduction. Personally. Deliberately. Privately.No swiping. No ghosting. No performing for an app.Just introductions.
Why is membership so accessible?
Because your net worth shouldn't be the only barrier to entry. The monthly fee is our filter — it keeps the bots, the scammers, and the uninvested out. Everyone in The Black Book has skin in the game.That is the point.For less than the cost of one bad cocktail on a terrible app date, you get a seat in the room with people who are serious.
What Your Membership Includes
✦ Inclusion in our private registry of vetted, marriage-minded professionals
✦ Consideration for introductions when genuine alignment exists
✦ Priority invitations to exclusive Smitten Soirées events — before tickets go public
✦ Personal outreach from Kai directly when an introduction is being considered
✦ Full discretion. Always.
Membership does not guarantee introductions, matches, or timeline. Introductions are made at BTI's sole discretion.
The Company You Keep
The Black Book grows through the caliber of its members.
Once inside, you will have the private opportunity to nominate other accomplished singles for the registry. Good people know good people. The room is only as good as the people in it.
Join The Registry
Annual Membership — $199/year
Best value. Two months free.
Monthly Membership — $19.99/month
Cancel anytime. Start today.
Why The Black Book?
Dating apps waste your time. Endless swiping. No vetting. Anyone can create a profile.
Singles events attract the wrong crowd. Open to everyone. No screening. Surface-level connections.
The Black Book is different.
Every applicant is carefully evaluated for:
Professionally accomplished – No one here is looking for a meal ticket
Relationship-ready – Marriage-minded, not "seeing what's out there"
Genuinely intentional – Invested in finding partnership, not playing games
Values-aligned – Shares your standards for excellence and discretion
We don't just check boxes. When genuine alignment exists, Kai makes the introduction. Personally. Deliberately. Privately.
Ready to Stop Looking in the Wrong Rooms?
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Client Love
"I thought the problem was that men couldn't handle successful women. Turns out, I was presenting myself in a way that attracted the wrong type of man entirely. Once I understood what was happening, everything shifted. I'm now engaged to someone who sees my ambition as one of the things he loves most about me." ~Sarah, 34, Marketing Executive ( Your Maker On Call + Black Book Member)
"BTI delivered where everything else failed. I met an incredible woman who matches my ambition and shares my values. Worth every penny." ~ David, 42, Private Equity Partner (Elite Matchmaking Client)
"The ROI on this investment? Priceless. I went to one Smitten Soirée and realized I was finally in a room where I didn't have to hide my success. Everyone is vetted. Everyone is serious. This is the room"
~ S.B. Entrepreneur, 39, (Black Book Member + Wing Woman Experience)
Meet Kai —Founder, Black Tie Introductions™ | Luxury Lifestyle Matchmaker
Meet Your Relationship Architect & Curator
I'm Kai, Founder of Black Tie Introductions™ and architect of The Black Book—the only society where your romantic prospects match your professional standards.After years as a relationship strategist to ultra-high-net-worth individuals, I recognized a void: accomplished singles had nowhere to meet their equals. No space that honored their success while facilitating authentic connection.The Black Book was born from a simple conviction: Exceptional people deserve exceptional experiences. Not another app. Not another mixer. A curated society where every member has been selected for their substance, success, and sincerity.At BTI don't do apps. We don't do algorithms. We make introductions — curated, deliberate, and private — for singles who are done performing for an algorithm and ready for the real thing. As a Certified Matchmaker, Minister, and Wedding Officiant, every introduction I make is intentional. Every one is private. Every one is curated.This isn't about finding someone tonight. It's about never wasting another evening wondering if the right person exists. We believe is quality vs. quantity which is why we are not for everyone.They do. They may already be inside The Black Book.
Welcome to your new standard.
Kai
Founder, Black Tie Introductions™
Curator of Exceptional Connections
Ready To Join Other Elite Singles?
Annual Membership — $199/year
Best value. Two months free.
Monthly Membership — $19.99/month
Cancel anytime. Start today.
Important:
Membership does not guarantee introductions, matches, or timeline. Introductions are made at BTI's sole discretion. Monthly memberships may be cancelled anytime. Annual memberships are non-refundable. Please email: [email protected] 3 days before your monthly or annual payment is renewed to request cancellation.
By joining, you confirm you are 18 years of age or older and agree to our Terms of Service.
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The Black Book Registry is a private membership directory offered by Black Tie Introductions™, a brand of The Luxe Lifestyle Management Agency, Inc. Membership does not guarantee introductions, matches, or romantic outcomes. Registry inclusion is subject to approval and may be revoked at the discretion of Black Tie Introductions™. All membership fees are non-refundable.